I can't find place where I can contact members in private? E-mail or though the forums, I just need a private line where I can tell my privilege stuff to a private kinda person
I think you have to click on the person's name or avatar, then click on the "Start a conversation" link. I think that is the equivalent of a private message on XenForo.
That is the best way to make a private conversation. Otherwise, I think there is a link to send a message to their personal email. Conversation is better